Why is camping alone scary and should you be afraid of the nighttime terrors that are waiting for you as the sun goes down just over the horizon?
Well my good friends, I’ll be talking about my first time experiences, what you need to know, and how to camp alone WITHOUT being scared for your life while you are out in the wilderness – alone and afraid.
Keep reading to see if you should be scared or not, and what you need to do to get rid of that fear once and for all!
My First Solo Camping Trip
I was 19 years old when I embarked on my first solo mission into the wilderness, and I was by no means a great camper either.
But since I had been camping with my father (and sometimes family) a few times, I thought I wouldn’t be scared and it’ll just be a time to relax, and I could just have it all to myself – exactly how it use to feel when I would go with my family, but with nobody else there.
It was daytime and it was amazing. When it got closer to nighttime, I started the fire and began cooking dinner.
But then the the sun went down, and all of a sudden, it got VERY LONELY. Like, it wasn’t a small loneliness feeling either.
It’s like I just realized that I was completely isolated from civilization and there was absolutely no one there with me, and if something went wrong, I’d have to fend for myself.
These negative thoughts made me feel anxious and REALLY uneasy.
It took me a long time to get to sleep. But the next day, as soon as the sun came up, I was out of there – instantly. Until this day, that first solo trip gives me the chills just from thinking about it.
But you have to remember, not everyone’s exactly the same, and everyone’s first solo camping trip is going to be different.
It Wasn’t Long Before I Realized Something
I soon realized that nighttime is a completely different environment than what daytime is.
So what does this mean?
In the daytime, you feel safe because you can see everything, the environment is calm, it’s relaxing, and you just know nothings going to happen to you.
However, at nighttime, it is a COMPLETELY different story.
And guess what?
Your mind is guaranteed to play tricks on you, no doubt about it.
This is exactly why I suddenly felt out of place and extremely scared/isolated from friends and family…well the whole of civilization for that matter.
I’m use to camping with other people, with at least one other person as company.
But when you’re alone, it offers an entirely different feel (aka extreme loneliness and scared for your life if you hear a noise).
It WILL Pass
After a few solo nights out in the wilderness, completely isolated from civilization, it didn’t take long before the heebie-jeebies went away.
That’s correct. The feelings of uneasiness and anxiety do eventually go away. It’s just a matter of sticking it out at fighting the good fight until you can finally relax in the harsh nighttime environment without being scared anymore.
So if you think it’s just you, it isn’t.
Almost everyone that tries to camp by themselves will get the same feelings that I did and they’ll have to keep camping alone if they want it to go away.
Of course, there ARE some ways to make it easier for you until those feelings go away for good.
So in the meantime, do some of the techniques outlined below and learn how to get over these scared/uneasy feelings much easier AND quicker.
So How Do We Stop Being Afraid?
Change Your Mindset
I decided to give it another try and see how it went. But I changed my mindset.
When it went nighttime I just kept reminding myself that it is EXACTLY like it is during the day. The only difference – there’s less light and it’s much colder.
You have the same animals, the same trees, insects, rocks, sticks, it’s all still there – only you can not see it. There’s a lack of light – so as long as you keep reminding yourself this, you feel so much better.
Do Activities At Night
You can calm yourself down by keeping your mind busy on other things, such as activities! The less you think about the bad stuff that can happen, the easier it is to get through the night.
- Read a book by the fire or in your sleeping bag
- Smoke a pipe!
- Carve a piece of wood using your knife
- Etc
Camp Close To Civilization
You could also consider camping near a town/city, just somewhere that’s close to civilization. It will make your mind feel more at ease since you’ll know humans aren’t THAT far away from you.
Even a public campground works like a charm! Yes, you’ll still be camping alone, but at least there’s other people around.
You can do this until it gets easier for you, then you’ll be able to start venturing out into the wilderness by yourself.
Bring A Gun
Of course, this all depends on the gun laws in your country. But if you know how to handle one and use it properly, then this could definitely work in your favor.
It will help you feel a lot more confident and less afraid.
Even if the law allows you to carry one, it is still best to check with your local law to see if they will allow you to carry it or not.
Take Plenty Of Flashlights (Or 2 At The Very Least)
Since you can’t see in the dark, flashlights give you a peace of mind.
Now what happens when your one and only flashlight falls into the water and you lose it or it breaks, or something else happens to your ONE flashlight? You’re left in pitch black, and even more afraid than before.
Having 2 flashlights is going to ensure you will at least have a backup. 2 is always better than 1!
And even though 2 is good, I usually take 4 anyway (2 LED and 2 Incandescent). These help a lot!
Blend In With Your Surroundings
If you’re afraid of being spotted by other people, try and camouflage yourself in with your surroundings.
So if you’re in a forest, don’t use a bright-orange tent!
Instead, use a dark-colored green one. You’ll have a much higher chance of being left alone since you won’t be seen from a mile away!
You could also use a tent that has a camouflage pattern on the rain fly. These are my favorite. Otherwise a dark-green tent still does the trick really well.
Use A Hammock
Afraid of being attacked during the night, while you’re asleep? A hammock is your new best friend.
These offer even more peace of mind than a tent, knowing no ground animals can get to you.
No axe murderers will be able to climb into your tent at night either! Although this ONLY happens in movies anyway.
Avoid Watching Horror/Thriller Films
This should come as no surprise.
But if you watch these types of shows or films and you have an overactive imagination, you’re going to be even more scared when you are out in the wilderness than if you DIDN’T watch them at all.
Go Off The Trail
Camping off the trail will give you extra security AND privacy. Knowing you won’t be spotted by passerby will make you feel so much more at ease and comfortable.
Take A Dog!
What’s scarier than hearing something go bump in the night? Your dog barking at someone! (scary for the other person I mean).
Even though this isn’t completely “solo”, it’s still a great way to ease yourself into solo camping if you ever want to try it out.
Having a dog with me ALWAYS makes me feel safe when I’m camping alone, which is why it’s my preferred choice for camping.
At least some company is better than none at all.
But Most Of All – Keep At It
Trust me – the more you camp alone, the easier it gets.
You’ll become more confident out in the wild, as you’ll realize you can actually handle situations if it ever gets to a violent/dangerous point.
Always carry a hatchet or small knife and a flashlight with you, and remember to take them to bed as well.
Even though these won’t do much (well the hatchet does), it will make you feel more comfortable, as you have at least SOMETHING there to protect yourself with.
However, being relaxed, confident and comfortable in nature is really the biggest secret to all of this.
The more you expose yourself to the wondrous environments that mother nature offers, the more confident you’ll become while you are in it, and this includes at nighttime as well.
Final Thoughts
Remember, the most scariest thing out there is almost certainly you. Ponder on that for a while, let it sink, because at the end of the day, it is so true!
A man and his wife walking through the bush is likely to be startled by you if they see you out camping alone.
Animals don’t enjoy human contact either, so they’ll try to avoid you as much as possible.
Furthermore, you can be loud and scary just like anyone else you come across in the wild.
The fight or flight response is a wonderful ability.
It has been known (many times) to turn frightened, small people into raging, ultra-scary human beings that can make anyone run in the opposite direction.
Have you ever tried camping alone? How was your experience and will you consider going by yourself again? Leave a comment below!
Otherwise, thanks for reading my article.
I hope you found the answers you were looking for 😀
You might also find these reasons to go camping interesting.
Cheers!
-Brandon
Camping Mastery
Hi Brandon,
I love backpacking so much, that it is basically the best vacation activity for me. But on the other hand I actually wasn’t camping alone, ever. I am thrilled to do it and maybe I will have the chance try it for few days in Yosemite park this summer. We will see, I believe that it is completely different experience though. On the other hand I probably most enjoyed backpacking trips through wilderness with my girlfriend. Where is your favorite place that you’ve been backpacking at?
I agree with you, David. Camping is on top of my vacation list as well! Going camping with somebody else pretty much ALWAYS gives you a peace of mind. So remember, when you’re alone, the tables will turn and it will feel MUCH different – entirely – not so much during the daytime but more so at nighttime.
I’m in New Zealand and my favorite is hands down the Milford Track, which is a 4-day backpacking trip. If you’re ever in New Zealand, I highly suggest you try it out!
Thanks for the comment,
Brandon
Great story! It’s true you need to take plenty of flashlights with you because I personally experienced that first hand. Do you have any specific flashlights that you could personally recommend? Thanx!
Thanks a lot, Mike. It’s not good to find out the hard way, yet it makes people learn a lot easier and faster as well, since you’ll never want it to happen again you will always be prepared, haha.
Yes, there’s one I typically like, and you’ve probably heard of it already – The J5 Tactical Flashlight is very affordable and does a great job.
Always happy to help 🙂
-Brandon
Hello, Brandon
I found your story amusing and insightful. Love the part of carrying a gun with you for added security. I will bare the tips you have suggested in mind the next time I decide to go, “Solo Camping.”
I agree that experience will build confidence not only for Solo Camping but in any adventure one chooses to pursue. The only security anyone has is the trust is in themselves.
I have camped alone, and I have to agree with you that your mind enjoys playing tricks on you.
To answer your question. I would consider camping Solo again. It does reveal quite a bit about yourself being alone.
Thank you for sharing.
Hello Kevin,
Thanks for the comment! The gun is a great choice if you know how to use one, at least you know you’ll be much safe if you have one with you. Thanks for sharing your feedback too 🙂 And I know for a fact that being alone in the wilderness reveals a lot about yourself. You connect with mother nature a lot more and you discover who you truly are. It’s the best feeling in the world!
Good luck,
Brandon
You are a brave soul. Don’t know how I would handle being in the woods at night by myself. Gotta say that if I had to do it, I’d take your advice and bring a dog. I like that your article has a lot of common-sense guidelines, such as having a dog as a companion, keeping a spare flashlight and taking part in some kind of activity to keep your mind occupied.
Thanks a bunch for the kind words, Craig.
If you decide to try it out, please make sure you have a LOT of camping experience up your sleeves first. And yes, I would highly recommend you bring a dog, especially if you want that all-important peace of mind, because bringing your furry friend is going to help with that.
Good luck,
Brandon
Hey Brandon!
Wonderful article on camping at night! Having 2 flash lights and also a dog would make things a whole better especially the dog!
Didn’t think of the color of the tent!….pretty good tip…I am sure I would have gone with a bright colored one!.
Very easy to follow suggestions and I’ll remember not to watch horror films when out in the dark!
Ravi
Yes! The dog makes it so much better, because at least you have a loyal friend that’s going to protect you, no matter what!
I mean don’t watch horror films when you’re at home, or when it’s closer to going on your trip, as you’ll think about all the bad stuff that can happen when you do finally go on your solo camping trip.
Thanks for the kind words 🙂
-Brandon
Great tips on camping alone. I get scared easily and so I only have tried to camp outside in my backyard – only once and only to get a feel of it. It is true that our mind plays tricks on us and as you mentioned there are many ways to overcome that.
Would be a good idea to listen or leave music on at night while camping alone at night?
If you are camping alone, do you check out the environment first before heading to the site? Meaning, do you get info on what kind animals (insects, reptiles,…) that may live there?
I do like your tip of blending in with the background….
Thank you for this amazing info.
Thanks a bunch, Udoh 😀
Of course your mind is going to play tricks on you. Basically, because nighttime offers a completely different environment than daytime, your mind is going to think differently as well. There’s a high chance you will start thinking about all the bad stuff that can happen to you at any moment.
And yes, definitely! Leaving music on will help calm your nervous a LOT.
I begin research before I head out on a camping trip, yes. I find out what animals are in that area and if there’s been any murders lately as well. Just get a general idea about the area, you don’t have to go into exact detail.
Thanks for the comment!
-Brandon
Man I’ve been dying to try this out, and now that you’ve done it and gave us all a ‘behind the look’ scenes into camping alone I am more excited. Honestly what I’d be most worried about is like getting injured and not being able to get to the nearest hospital or something, but I think if you plan right, let people know where you’re at and when to expect you home you should be fine.
You got it, Bassam! That’s why you should tell someone where you are going! It’s a very small task that is almost always overlooked. But in reality, it can mean the difference between life and death – literally.
If you get lost, you will have someone come looking for you. And more times than not, it’s a full rescue team.
If you break your leg and can’t walk back to safety – again, you will be rescued.
Now what happens when you skips this step? You’ll be STRUGGLING to find your way back to safety, there’s a much higher chance for you to die out there.
I hope you take these tips on board with you. I wish you all the best in your wilderness ventures! 😀
Good luck.